Angiebabes, much as I enjoy your friendship I think that Dolly has worked to hard for too many years to just ditch this site. Possibly the answer maybe to send this Essex person to a city in the Midlands. Namely Coventry. By doing this he or she would have nothing to feed off. Also he might really like Eastern Europe.
Just a thought.
Sorry Edward Bear, no offence to Dolly at all, I am very appreciative of all the work she has done maintaining this site for as many years as she has.